The Confidence Code: Overcoming Fear & Taking Action

Hello Freedom Creator,

I hope you're continuing to build momentum on your journey to freedom.

Last time we talked about how small consistent actions are the key to building momentum and making progress toward your goals.

Today, I want to focus on something that often gets in the way of that momentum:

FEAR.

Let’s be honest...

Fear is something we all face whether you're just starting out or you've been in the game for years.

It shows up as self-doubt, imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and the fear of failure.

It can make you freeze in your tracks, convincing you to wait for the "perfect" time or to gain more knowledge before you take action.

But here’s the truth:

Fear is a normal part of growth and you can’t avoid it.

There is no perfect time because every day is the time.

The good news? You don’t have to let it stop you.

The Real Secret to Confidence

Confidence doesn’t magically appear once you’ve achieved success. And it’s not something you gain and keep forever.

It comes and goes.

Instead, confidence is built by taking consistent action despite your fear.

Every time you step outside your comfort zone and push through those doubts, you become a little stronger, a little wiser, and a little more confident in yourself and your abilities.

Think of confidence as a muscle. The more you exercise it, the stronger it gets.

The people who seem the most confident aren’t fearless; they’ve just learned how to take action even when they’re afraid.

Here’s the secret:

Everyone you look up to still carries fear in one capacity or another.

They just do a really good job at hiding it.

How Do You Start Building That Confidence Muscle?

Here are three powerful steps to overcome fear and take action:

1. Reframe Your Fear

Hear me out…

What if I told you that fear is a sign you're on the right track?

Fear only shows up when you're doing something that matters.

It’s your brain’s way of trying to keep you safe by avoiding uncertainty. Our brain is naturally wired to protect us from discomfort but the truth is that nothing worth having comes without a little uncertainty.

The next time you feel fear creeping in, ask yourself: What’s the worst that could happen?

Most of the time, the worst-case scenario isn’t as bad as we imagine.

And even if things don’t go perfectly, you’ll learn, grow, and be better for it.

2. Focus on Progress, Not Perfection

Perfectionism is one of fear’s sneakiest disguises.

I’ll admit — I am somewhat of a perfectionist.

I think in the macro but I am extremely micro-detailed. It’s what helped me scale and grow my prior company to the point of a sale.

However, the thing with perfectionism is that it convinces you that you need to have everything figured out before you start or that you need to be flawless in your execution.

But let me tell you something from my personal experience: done is better than perfect.

You don’t need to get it right on the first try. Just getting it out there is enough. Then, you can always improve and refine as you go.

Whether it’s launching your first product, posting your first video, or starting that blog, take imperfect action. Now.

3. Take the Next Small Step

Overcoming fear doesn’t mean you have to take giant leaps right away.

Start with one small, manageable step, one day at a time.

Maybe it’s reaching out to your first potential client. Maybe it’s posting your first Instagram story. Maybe it’s sharing something vulnerable about yourself.

Whatever it is — just take that one small step today.

Once you do the next step will feel easier, and the next, and so on.

Remember…

Action breeds confidence. Confidence crushes fear.

My Own Battle with Fear

If you think fear goes away once you’ve reached a certain level of success, let me tell you — it doesn’t.

I’ve experienced it throughout my entire journey even after I sold the family business.

And even then, after I took some time off and decided to start my online business.

I remember feeling overwhelmed with doubt when I started. I had tried so many ventures before and most had failed in some way.

Would this just be another flash-in-the-pan venture?

I worried if I could stick with it because I often got distracted by the next shiny object, business model, or quick-money-making idea.

Most importantly, I questioned whether anyone would care about my message or if I had what it took to create something meaningful and impactful in the online space.

But instead of letting that fear paralyze me, I chose to embrace it.

I reframed it as a sign that I was onto something important.

Because I know I am.

I focused on progress, not perfection, and took the next small step every day.

No matter what the results.

And now?

I’m seeing the momentum build.

I’m seeing the positivity of showing up despite the fear.

What’s the lesson?

Fear is part of the journey.

And the only way to overcome it is to keep moving forward.

Remember, confidence is built by taking action, not by waiting for fear to disappear.

So, ask yourself: What’s one small step I can take today?

Take it and watch your confidence grow.

Thanks for reading.

See you on the next one.

To Your Success and Freedom,
Daniel Purgal
freedombydesign.ceo
Design Your Life, Create Your Freedom